This Investment Will Make You Rich
- Adete Dahiya
- May 6
- 3 min read
If you clicked on this thinking I am going to be talking about careers, finances, or business, then I have a surprise for you.
Today we’re talking about an investment that is far more important and reaps far more important rewards.
I am talking about investing time in healing our emotional wounds.
We all have ups and downs in life. The highs are super high, but the lows can be super low. A breakup that leaves you hollow, friendships fading quietly away, or dreams that don’t come true.
Each of these moments leaves behind a small scar that quietly shapes us.
Yet, instead of learning to heal these wounds, you’re taught to hide them, push through, and pretend it’s okay.
But, this is exactly where you go wrong.
When you go through life unhealed, you invite more trauma, more stress, and more heartbreak into your life that can very easily be avoided.
Because, healing is not about "fixing" yourself. It's rather about carefully nurturing your emotions, honoring your experiences, and showing yourself the gentle kindness you truly deserve.
This is why, I decided to write this edition where we will talk about why your emotional healing is one of your richest investments. And how you can tap into it with my 7-5-3 approach to actually move ahead in life.
I have knowingly kept this newsletter short in order not to overwhelm you.
So, read this till the end and come back to it anytime life feels heavy to you.
✅ My "7-5-3 Approach" to Rich Healing
Healing is most powerful when it’s gentle and consistent.
I still remember the time when I couldn’t get through the day without feeling emotionally heavy. I didn’t have a plan, just an ache in my chest and a mind full of “what-ifs.” That’s when I started jotting down tiny rituals to hold myself together. That’s how this 7-5-3 practice was born; from a place of need, not knowledge.
And here’s a comforting daily practice you can easily follow to support your emotional journey:
✨ 7 Minutes of Daily Emotional Honesty
Every morning or evening, give yourself seven quiet minutes for genuine reflection and emotional honesty.
➡️ Write a brief journal entry acknowledging your true feelings without judgment.,
➡️ Name your emotions clearly. Label them as they are. Sadness, confusion, loneliness, or even gratitude.
➡️ Then ask yourself: "What is my heart telling me today?"
Doing this exercise daily allows you room to breathe, soothes anxiety, and creates more emotional clarity.
✨ 5 Small Gentle Acts of Healing
Throughout the day, intentionally choose five small actions to soothe and comfort yourself. This practice transforms gentle actions into powerful emotional nourishment:
➡️ Movement: Take a short walk, stretch, or dance freely for a few minutes. Movement helps release emotional tension, gently signaling your mind that you’re safe.
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➡️ Creative Outlet: Write, sketch, cook, sing. Do whatever feels comforting. Because creativity helps you quietly move your emotions from internal struggle to gentle external release.
➡️ Physical Comfort: Drink a soothing herbal tea, wrap yourself in a soft blanket, or indulge in your favorite ice cream flavour. This will physically calm your nervous system, encouraging emotional ease.
➡️ Connect Gently: Send a brief heartfelt message to someone who makes you feel safe. This outreach reminds you that you’re not alone.
➡️ Quiet Stillness: Sit quietly for two minutes, breathing deeply and intentionally, or gently meditate. Stillness helps regulate emotional overwhelm, and reduces stress hormones bringing you back into a calm, balanced state.
✨ 3 Soft Reminders for Emotional Strength
Each day, treat these reality checks as an affirmation and repeat them to yourself:
➡️ "My feelings matter, even the uncomfortable ones."
➡️ "Healing takes time and I'm allowed to take mine."
➡️ "I deserve the same kindness I give others."
These daily affirmations will help you rewire your inner dialogue, slowly replacing judgment with understanding and acceptance.
Your feelings aren't obstacles; they're messages guiding you toward a richer, deeper life.
Because once you start tending to your inner wounds, something magical happens:
You stop repeating the same patterns.
You stop choosing chaos out of habit.
You begin making decisions from clarity, not survival.
And that is the kind of emotional wealth that spills into everything. Your work, your relationships, your creativity, and your confidence.
So, if this touched something in you, I’d love to hear it.
Hit reply and share, what’s one gentle act you’ll gift yourself today?
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